GF texting married guy at 4AM and thinks its ok but I don't, How do I explain that to her?

Gertrude Darke: sounds to me your relationship is gearing towards an ugly ending that could take months to develop. the fact that she spoke with him means there is a need she has that u cant fill. the fact that u cheated on her is a sign that she isn't fulfilling all of your needs as well.you can either a. get mad tell her not to (she will ultimately end up fulfilling that need maybe with him, maybe with someone else but it will happen regardless of what u say)b. decide to have an open relationship (however u sound like a monogamous type of person)c. choose to accept it/ignore itd. end the relationship before it gets to ugly...Show more

Merna Fauset: No. Probably it's you that just right guys are usually not thinking about. Did you ever consider of that? Just right guys need to be handled like a man and they've wishes as well. Usually ladies get mixed up and confuse just right guys with whatever else. I've invariably been a good man and some ladies look to mistake m! y kindness as a weak point. I don't like that and that's a certain signal that I received to go. And on no account flip again. If i am high-quality to a woman and he or she takes it without any consideration I also leave her. Good guys are tough to return by means of and we're ailing of females considering that we are 'gay' considering we're nice or taken for granted. This is the reason I hate being a 'good guy' and i'm seeking to alternate my ways. I think that there aren't any just right women out there and they're all both skanks, nags or money grabbers....Show more

Chastity Doderer: I didn't even read everything, and you know what I think? Break up with her, dumbass.

Christiane Cattano: It may be nothing now, but its heading in that direction. Tell her it's bullshit, and you're not ok with it. If she continues with the BS, dump her sorry ***.